Independent Learners

Garden Birds… We’ve been watching a blackbird helping his baby to become independent. Last week baby was sitting on a branch; parent was feeding it. Now baby’s feeding itself whilst parent looks on. This morning we were watching a parent and baby robin. Last week the parent was the provider. Now it’s the supervisor.

In School… During my teaching career sometimes the emphasis was what teachers taught; sometimes the focus was more on the knowledge or skill that was to be learnt, and enabling that learning. Sometimes the priority was for the children not to be totally dependent on the teacher, but to become inquisitive, enquiring independent learners.

Still learning… Sometimes at our Men’s Shed someone will say, ‘Every day’s a school day’ as they’ve learnt a new workshop skill. This week I’m learning more about… World War II through the VE Day celebrations… Nixon and Watergate through Charles Colson’s autobiography… people – I’m still discovering that everyone I meet (without exception!) has something to teach me.  

In the Unexpected… In six enjoyable conversations yesterday I learnt about work, illnesses, faith, holidays, gardens… human character, life’s challenges… I visited Darren in his care-home. When I last saw Darren he was sick and conversation was hard work. Yesterday Darren was well, cheerful and chatty. The one I’d expected least from taught me the most.

With Gratitude… Darren taught me again how important gratitude is. Appreciating what we have, not complaining about what we don’t have. Older friends talk with regret about diminishing strength and stamina, health concerns, fading memories, friends and family that are no longer with us. Appreciating what I have is a lesson I’m continuing to learn.

Through Failure… This morning I’ve read Psalm 51; David’s deeply regretting his sexual encounter with the beautiful Bathsheba. He’s learning a lesson the hard way. Some of the biggest lessons I’ve learnt have come through my mistakes, failures and dark times. Meanwhile baby robin and blackbird are learning to feed themselves through their parents deliberate failure to feed them.