Bright Sadness

Yesterday…

…We attended William’s funeral. There was sadness: loved by his family and friends William was only thirty-one. There was joy: celebrating his life, and ‘William-ness’. Mum-Susan brought memories of her son with emotion and courage. Stepdad-Stephen told stories illustrating his quirky humour and brave determination.

There were smiles: we heard Bobby McFerrin’s ‘Don’t worry, be happy’, many wore colourful clothing and silly hats. There were tears: we reflected on prayers of commendation and farewell… as the coffin was lowered into the ground.

Celebrating William’s life: bright sadness.

…I listened to Philippe Clement. The Norwich City head coach was reflecting on Sunday’s 3-0 loss to Leeds, a disappointing day for players and fans.

Clement spoke about Leeds being a Premiership club, playing at a higher level than Norwich… the improvement that the young Norwich team have made in recent weeks, but the further improvements that are necessary… lessons the players will learn, the motivation it will give to play with greater skill and consistency.

Reflecting on Sunday’s match: bright sadness.

…I read Chine McDonald. Her ‘Premier Christianity’ article ‘Willing to die’ is subtitled ‘Western Christians may never face execution for their faith, but we are called to costly obedience.’

Discussing moral courage, she concludes: ‘Perhaps moral courage requires us to make some sacrifice; to risk losing comfort, respect, status or friendships with those who hold power in an earthly sense. Moral courage… means standing up and being counted. It requires a letting go, in pursuit of something greater.’

Practicing moral courage: bright sadness.

…I learnt about Lent. The Orthodox Church calls Lent the ‘Season of Bright Sadness’. To reach the brightness of life, Easter and resurrection we pass go through the sadness of suffering, Good Friday and death.

William’s memories, Sunday football and moral courage involve simultaneous brightness and darkness, celebration and sadness.

At William’s celebration service we heard: ‘Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I will fear no evil for you are with me…’ More bright sadness.